For nearly twenty years, people couldn’t look away from Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. Bennifer, as everyone fondly called them, wasn’t just a celebrity couple; they became a pop culture phenomenon. They were glamorous, messy, and fairly impossible to ignore.The first time around, back in the early 2000s, they redefined what it meant to be a Hollywood power couple. Then came the break-up, and it seemed like, with them calling it quits, the whole world started recoiling from believing in love.So when they got back together almost twenty years later, fans everywhere lost their minds. It felt like the universe was giving them a second shot, and it did. But this time as well, just like before, things didn’t last. Bennifer 2.0 looked like a storybook comeback, but it ended with heartbreak all over again.Let’s rewind and see how it all played out: the big moments, the pressure, and what finally pulled them apart.
Bennifer 1.0: The original Hollywood fairytale
It all started about 25 years ago. Jennifer Lopez was already a worldwide superstar, and Ben Affleck had an Oscar on his shelf. They met on the set of ‘Gigli’, started dating in 2002, and the whole world watched sparks fly. The media couldn’t get enough of them. By the end of that year, they were engaged, and that pink diamond ring was all anyone talked about. Their lavish wedding was set for September 2003, but they didn’t follow through with that milestone. Why? As several outlets like Elle, People, and more reported, the paparazzi swarmed, the pressure got intense, and just weeks before the big day, they called it off. They tried to make it work, but by January 2004, Bennifer was over.Looking back, per Elle, Lopez even admitted that the nonstop attention just ate away at them. The world’s obsession made it almost impossible for the relationship to survive.
The long pause
After the breakup, both Ben and Jen went their own ways. Lopez married Marc Anthony, had twins, and kept making music and movies. On the other hand, Affleck moved on with another Jennifer (Garner), married her, had three kids (Violet Anne, Seraphina Rose Elizabeth, and Samuel Garner), and kept building his career. Life moved on, at least on the surface.
Bennifer 2.0: The reunion and rekindled romance
Then, almost out of nowhere, rumors popped up in 2021 that Ben and Jen were hanging out again. At first, nobody could believe it, but soon enough, they were showing up together. In fact, the same year, they even hit the Met Gala as a couple. Things moved fast. By spring 2022, they were engaged (again), and that summer, they got married in Vegas. A month later, they threw a bigger wedding at Ben’s place in Georgia. The world watched in awe, and it felt like the happy ending they never got the first time.For a while, it looked like they’d finally figured their fairytale out. Lopez even wrapped their love story into her album ‘This Is Me… Now: A Love Story’. Fans saw it as proof that Bennifer was back for good.
The breakdown: Why Bennifer 2.0 fell apart
But even the second time around, Bennifer didn’t last. Under the surface, things got rocky. By early 2024, word was out that they were living apart. Tension was building. As per People, on August 20, 2024, exactly two years after their Georgia wedding, JLo filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences. She didn’t ask for spousal support and wanted her name back. By early 2025, it was official: Ben and Jen were single again.
What went wrong with Bennifer 2.0?
Things between Ben and Jen looked like a fairy tale for a while—old flames finding their way back to each other, building a family with kids and more—but the cracks started to show. When a couple starts living separately, the cracks are obvious.So what really happened? Reports say that a handful of things seemed to pile up.First, per People, there was the nonstop public and media pressure. Even though they were both older and supposedly wiser since their first go-around, the paparazzi never let up. Every little thing they did got picked apart and broadcast everywhere. It’s hard to build a relationship when the whole world wants a front-row seat.Then, there’s the reality of different lifestyles and personal growth. As per Elle, people close to them stated that their lives just didn’t line up the way they hoped. Years of doing their own thing—separate families, careers, priorities—made it tough to fully mesh their worlds again.Moreover, you also can’t ignore the emotional baggage. Getting back with an old flame sounds romantic, but it drags a lot of history with it. This wasn’t just a reunion; it was two people with a past trying to make it work, and old habits crept in.Oddly enough, there wasn’t some big scandal or dramatic “aha” moment behind the split. The split was truly “amicable,” and both parties showed restraint and enough respect to not tear each other apart in public.In fact, Affleck came out and said it himself, that there was no soap opera sort of drama, no shocking secret; it was just two people facing the complicated messiness of real life. On the other hand, Lopez focused on healing and her family, calling this chapter tough but necessary.
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