Vivek Oberoi has experienced the highs and lows of love like few others. The ‘Saathiya’ actor recently opened up about how heartbreak once made him vow never to fall in love again. But with time, patience, and finding the right partner, everything changed.
Vivek Oberoi once vowed against falling in love
Vivek Oberoi has often spoken openly about love, heartbreak, and how these experiences shaped him long before he built a home with his wife. In a chat with Pinkvilla, he reflected on how his understanding of love has evolved with age, maturity, and lessons that once left him retreating into silence.The ‘Masti’ actor explained that while falling in love comes easily, staying in love is much harder, “A person may be wrong for you, but right for somebody else. Maybe the time is wrong and you meet the same person, 20 years ago, and you like them, you have seen love stories like this. For a while, I went into a shell, I didn’t want to be in a relationship. Nahi chahiye relationship, I went into that zone, but when you find the right person, all that things seem like a bad dream.”
Vivek Oberoi highlighted positivity after heartbreak
The ‘Shootout at Lokhandwala’ actor shared how heartbreak taught him to focus on positivity, “You can only overcome heartbreaks by positivity. We should not take stress and all the things that we thought as a big problem, now we laugh at it. During heartbreaks in childhood, you felt life is over. It is finished. She has left me. What will I do? Cut to two years later, you are dating somebody else, you are happy, you are married with children life and life moves on.”
He explained how falling in love feels easy
Reflecting on his journey, Vivek shared his learning from love as he grew older and how he now treasures his relationship with his wife. He explained, “When you are young easy to fall in love but as you grow older, you make mistakes in relationships, you learn from these mistakes and you don’t go into toxic patterns. Then you realise that the journey is not about falling in love, it is highly romanticised, it is the beginning, but staying in love is the next challenge and the third part is when you grow in love, I believe I a at this stage with my wife. And the fourth part is when you rise in love.”
Vivek Oberoi’s marriage and family
Vivek is happily married to Priyanka Alva Oberoi. The couple tied the knot on 29 October 2010 and are parents to two children, a son, Vivaan Veer Oberoi, and a daughter, Ameyaa Nirvana Oberoi.
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